Harrison Mooney. INVISIBLE BOY: A Memoir of Self-Discovery. Patrick Crean / HarperCollins, 2022.
Borrowed from a book club friend. Local story, a Black child adopted into a fundamentalist White Christian family in Abbotsford, 20 minutes down the road. Mooney is a professional writer which was an unexpected treat to read this often sad and disconcerting story. I kept remembering former students at the age Mooney is describing himself and the reactions often seen in adolescents trying to figure out who they are and who they are meant to be, often without help, and, in this case, with a controlling parent seeming to work against the idea of his "finding himself". He describes his "clown" phase and his "joker" seeking laughs to help himself feel visible.
I enjoyed the local references, the intersections with my own experience in the Fraser Valley (caught in the anti-abortion protest in Abbotsford, visiting Camp Squeah) and the details of church-hopping and different aspects of fundamentalist culture. I was previously unaware of the horrors of home schooling, using American materials, imposing family ideals. I must have confused it with distance education which at least requires that students follow a curriculum. I felt really bad for the boy so desperate to "earn" his mother's love. There was no such thing as "unconditional" or "reject the behaviour, love the child". The disappointment of searching for the birth parents is palpable. My greatest fear, of memoir written by someone too young to see more than his own POV is still there. A sequel will be welcome, after he has parented his own children.